Dealing with death can be difficult for your loved one or friend and may bring up emotions that are hard to deal with. Words that comfort are always a way to help him with his grief. Little words can mean so much to someone during this time in his life.
There are many words to say and there are many words you should not say during this time. There are also ways in which you should and should not act. You want to help your loved one out during their time of need. However, you do not want to upset them any more, so it is good to evaluate your behavior in your assistance to them.
The most obvious words that you can say to a loved one during this time is that you are sorry for their loss. This small little phrase can mean a lot to someone to let them know you care. Let your loved one know you are there for him and if he needs anything to let you know.
Tell your loved one of the memories you have of the deceased. Knowing you think so much of this person will let him know how important they are to you. If they do not feel like talking at this moment, let them know you will be there for them when they are ready to talk.
Comforting words at the time of death do not include those words that are so very cliché.
Behavior is so important when helping a loved one deal with grief. Acting in strange ways may make them feel uncomfortable, so just be you.
Here is a list of things you can do that will be appreciated.
There are also ways in which you should not act during this time of grieving. Prying into personal matters is not going to help your loved ones out at all. Allow them to grieve in their own way and if you ask a question run it through your head before saying it out loud.
Asking questions about the death is absolutely off limits. They do not want to talk about it or rehash the devastation to you. Talking about the deceased is fine, but only focus on the wonderful things you and your loved one remember about him or her.