Surgery may be a part of life at some point for many people, so a person may appreciate hearing comforting words before their surgery. These words give us hope and a feeling of belonging and worth. These words give us the strength to move forward when we are not feeling so great before surgery.
Always hearing a comforting word can help with making someone feel a little better.
The goal here is to give words of comfort even if they sound corny and make no sense to anyone else but the few who are in the conversation.
Comforting words can come in a form of a joke. Tell a goofy joke your friend or loved one likes. Taking his mind off the surgery for just a few minutes will help ease his mind, as will knowing you are there and just being yourself.
Comforting words mean words that are going to help your friend or loved one through his ordeal. Words such as "I know how you feel" do not come across as comforting because it sounds like it is more about you than it is him. Also, telling him not to cry does not constitute being comforting. If the person is crying, he is working through the pain and emotions he is having about going into surgery.
Never tell them you are sorry. Most people do not want to feel like people are taking pity on them, so these three little words are not much of a comfort when it comes to helping someone through a surgery.
Sometimes an action can make all the difference to someone before going into surgery. A hug, a pat on the hand or a smile can go a long way. Make sure you act natural. If you act on edge or uncomfortable, you will most likely be giving off the vibe to the person about to go into surgery. Making him feel at ease is the best thing for him when you are there for moral support.
Allow the person who is going to have surgery to talk openly about it. Let him voice his concerns about the procedure. Allowing him to do this lets him focus and look at the big picture of what is going on. Often just being there can do wonders.
Another thing you can do is to send flowers, a plant or a card. By doing this you are letting the patient know you care about him. A simple gesture such as this can go a long way to making someone feel better.
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